June 12th, 2011
gelthegross-deactivated20140707

Also

Sorry I just read that whole thing. I just did the same thing to a guy that the girl is talking about and we got back together because I was wrong, but I mean… we shouldn’t ever hate or judge people just cause we don’t understand their reasons, even if they hurt us.

June 12th, 2011
gelthegross-deactivated20140707

On promiscuity

I looked on here cause you started following me(thanks!) and couldn’t help but give a little input for the girl saying after a breakup this boy started being all over people. That sounds like dealing with greif to me. I mean not everybody goes home and cries and is celebate when they are sad and miss someone. Sometimes people want to chase other girls to get one out of their mind. I don’t know the whole story, so I’m not trying to generalize but seriously don’t judge people based on promiscuity because it doesn’t always mean what you think it means.

June 7th, 2011
omgrelationshiphelp
your follow up :) -
looks like i wont be doing any of this because apparently last week he was already all over girls, infact, my close friends, best mates girlfriend! All my feelings towards him have changed completely :) If he's doing stuff like that so soon after the break up it shows he never cared in the first place and i'm glad i can now move on :)x

i couldnt have said it better myself. you will find that person who is right for you…i am certain of one thing…he is not the one!

June 3rd, 2011
omgrelationshiphelp

taking 2 more for the day…relationship help or any advice just hit the button and i got you!

June 3rd, 2011
omgrelationshiphelp
Urgh, okay so i'm just going to say everything that's on my mind.
You know like everyone has that one person they would go back to in a second, that one person who you can't get over. Well, he broke up with me around 2 weeks ago, and i'm broken. I'm acting all fine on the outside, but inside i'm a mess and i feel i can't talk to anyone about it. We were together quite a long time and everything was going well i felt, and then all of a sudden he started ignoring me in person, and not returning my calls or texts. Then i got a text from him, dumping me. (Yes, through a text!) To this day i still have no idea why, the only reason i got from him was "Because he has doubt about the relationship".
Anyway, I've asked for him back a few times, and each time he's said no. He was the one person i felt comfortable around, and i feel i'm never going to be THAT comfortable around any other person again. I wanted to lose my virginity to him and everything, and now i just don't know what to do. What do i do?! I'm so confused.

"having doubts in a relationship" can mean so many things, it could clearly be him just getting scared cause things are getting serious, clearly at this point it does not seem that you can approach him about the subject, possibly trying to sit him down in due time may help, but under no circumstance should you be asking him back out, there is a reason he backed away and maybe you should either give him time as to why or consider talking to him, i would really like a follow up from you as this progresses!

June 3rd, 2011
omgrelationshiphelp
I love a boy since 2009 .Hes 2 yrs older than me. We went out for 7 months at 2009 and he was with the same girl since then. He broke up with she and told me he have feelings for me too. We kissed but he didnt say anything about us since then (but we have actually talked after it) . I think he is ashamed of me ( bcuz im 2 grades before him and he mentioned once he friends would say bad things about it). I really like him, i dont want to get over him, i feel like nobody understands our story but i can't stand the feeling he is ashamed of me. What should I do?

if he is ashamed of you then clearly he is not feeling the same way about you that you do about him, the age and grade gap is understandable but if he is not willing to look past it then you should be willing to look past him, you are better than that and deserve more

June 1st, 2011
omgrelationshiphelp
thankyou for the follow, i'll be needing you!

im here if u need me!

June 1st, 2011
twistinpast

Thanks for following me ^^ good night õ/

June 1st, 2011
omgrelationshiphelp
Hey , I need help.. My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year now and were going VERYYY strong. Although i know its unlikely (so people say) we always talk about getting married and living together (were 15) .. but we always get MADDDD JEALOUS when the other is with other boys or girls.. how do i stop being so jealous.. ive never been the jealous type before..

Well jealousy in itself stems from how you care about the other person, especially at such a young tender age, Its easy to be jealous in such cases as to where he is getting attention from another female etc. BUT you should also remind him that your jealousy is only a sign that you care so deeply,…if you two are discussing marriage and living together you must be very serious…and that in itself should be your assurance that there is nothing to fear, feel insecure about or inadequate as far as your relationship goes, dont let jealousy ruin a foundation  to a  great story to tell your grandchildren one day!

June 1st, 2011
omgrelationshiphelp

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